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When you need to resolve conflicts…

 

Even though there is a lot of contention in the world, it doesn’t have to be insurmountable.  People may think their way of fixing things is the solution yet why after so many attempts is peace is still out of reach?  The human’s way of resolving conflicts isn’t going to change people’s hearts permanently.  Peace is created at the heart level of people not on the surface level!  Only God can fully satisfy our human hearts’s needs.

Some people are too busy complaining and focusing on what they don’t want and not focusing on what they DO want to actually create.  World peace starts with inner peace.  What does peace look like and how can we create that from the core of each person?

Jesus tells us not to have contention but to have peace.  Some may think it is impossible to achieve, ‘Well, that’s easier said than done.’  But over the years, I’ve discovered that peace is simpler to achieve than we think.  Note, I didn’t say it was easier, I said ‘simpler.’

The answer is, we need to start by achieving inner peace within ourselves first.  This is the only place we have control.  When everyone is at peace within then we will have peace without in our many relationships and in our families.  With that inner peace, we no longer seek to control or change others.

As we all seek to come closer to God, we will naturally come closer to each other.  We naturally develop God-like attributes of caring for each other.

How do we achieve peace within first?

Peace starts with us proactively choosing to connect to and trusting God fully.  Connect to God by praying, opening your heart, and surrendering your will to Him completely.  Talk to God.  He is a loving Father who is always waiting to hear from you.  Open your heart to feeling and receiving impressions and inspirations from divine light.  Surrendering our will means we are ready and willing to have things go any whichever way God sees fit in His infinite wisdom.

Some people might not have a loving example of earthly parents to relate to, so they may claim that they have a hard time imagining a gentle loving Heavenly Father who cares for them.  I feel that if they look around, they can find evidence of gentle loving earthly parents that they can gain hope from.

Fortunate for me, my earthly father was gentle, sacrificing, and extremely loving.  He didn’t have eternal answers for me, but he encouraged me to seek for answers.  When I was 16, I talked to God for the first time in prayer.  As I prayed, I felt a powerful feeling filling up my heart and soul.  I wanted to cry.  Heavenly Father has been waiting to hear from me and I felt that He loves me very much.  My heart was filled with divine love.

When my heart was filled, all my fundamental human needs were met and satisfied.  At that point, all I wanted to do was to share that divine love with others.  In spite of my youth, I genuinely was willing to sacrifice and do all that is required to share that deep divine love with others, so they too can feel as fulfilled and happy as I was.

Get your fundamental human needs met FULLY by God

The fundamental human needs are needs that all humans consciously and subconsciously seek to satisfy all of the time.  Read more here. 

The fundamental human needs are:

• Love
• Importance/ Significance
• Belonging
• Certainty & Uncertainty (AKA security & variety)
• Personal power of choice / self-determination

 

Some people may claim that they love God, they have faith, and they feel God loves them but their actions do not align with their words.  If they are still not at peace, ‘draining’ on others, or constantly causing conflicts and contention, then they have not yet learned to fill up their hearts as fully as they could with God’s love.  Read more about divine love here.  Keep working on receiving that love and resolving those internal conflicts that stop you from fully receiving from God.

When we are filled with divine love, we feel important, we feel we belong somewhere, we are certain about somethings and are ok with the uncertainty of other things because we have full trust and confidence in God.  We feel His power!  We know His is in control.  When our fundamental human needs are fulfilled with God, we also are very aware of all the opportunities in which we are free to choose.  We recognize that we are free to choose our beliefs which creates thoughts.  We recognize our thoughts create our feelings.  We now are aware that feelings drives actions and actions creates the results in our lives.

We will no longer be controlled by our emotions and feelings.  We will no longer react to the world and it’s many dramas.  With a heart filled with divine love, we will know how to patiently turn negative feelings into positive feelings.  With sufficient divine love, we see the ‘perfection’ in all things therefore, we have peace in our souls.

The conflicts in our lives comes from an insufficient levels of divine love.  Insufficient levels of divine love cause us to myopically seek to satisfy those human needs by other humans.  It will be unsatisfactory therefore leading to us creating unnecessary problems, conflicts, contentions, and obstacles.

• People seek to win fights because they want to be ‘right’ because being ‘right’ satisfies their need for importance and power.
• People are overly competitive, angry, and mean at the opposition because the exclusive title of best makes them feel more important and more loved by others.
• People conform and self betray because they want to satisfy that need of belonging.  They don’t allow themselves to have an opinion when their thoughts are different to other because they are afraid of not being accepted (or loved) by others.
• People feel unnecessarily restricted or blinded by obstacles, social dogmas, and cultural trappings.  With an eternal perspective we can have integrity and a firm foundation in truth, an ability to be discerning and have uncanny intuition that helps us be decisive regardless of culture or society.
• Basically when we don’t allow God to satisfy our fundamental human needs, we are inward thinking and less empathetic to the world thus causing problems, conflicts, contentions, and obstacles.

Focus on divine love and choose peace

Often people do not take the time to be still long enough to discover the divine solutions for their contentions and conflicts.  People have a tendency to react to the world with rush, panic, fear, and impatience.   They keep trying to solve their problems at the surface level which inevitably leads to familiar frustrations.  The more we focus on superficially fixing the problems, conflicts, contentions, and obstacles we keep creating it.

If we pause and talk to God, we will know how to solve problems, conflicts, contentions, and obstacles with permanent core solutions.  I want to do things smarter, don’t you?   I love scriptures that record Jesus Christ’s teachings and the Book of Mormon I discovered, was one of those.  Here is a verse from it.

And it came to pass that there was no contention in the land, because of the love of God which did dwell in the hearts of the people.  ~ 4 Nephi 1:15

People didn’t fight in this particular community because they had God’s love in their hearts!  That is the solution to our problems, conflicts, contentions, and obstacles!

After only a few energy balancing sessions, I’ve seen many families applying these principles in their lives and discovering that their family now has more peace and joy.  Voila!  God does not make peace unobtainable nor does He hold solutions back as a mystery!  Peace is the fruit of God’s love in people’s hearts.

Sometimes we are busy focusing on things we don’t want and not focus on what we really do want.  If you want inner peace, you have to know what that looks like?  Does that mean you spend time in the morning meditating to learn more about yourself and your path?  Does inner peace mean you do the work that you enjoy and work with the people that you like?  Be clear and specific.

If you want family unity and peace, what does that look like?  Do we speak kindly and have civility towards one another?  Do we play inclusive family games and not exclusive games for family night?  Do we serve each other and express love for one another every day?

If you want world peace, start with your family and community.  What does peace look like in your community?  How do we best help our neighbors out?

Let’s come up with specific solutions and engage in those things instead of getting distracted, complaining, and worried about the things you don’t like.

To help us get there faster, it is best we are aware of our power of choice.  There is more to owning our power than most people realize.  Please read more about the degrees of passiveness and proactiveness here.

Essential oil Suggestions

I like to use essential oils to help me change the subconscious programing.

Essential oils are very concentrated plant extracts.  Certified pure therapeutic grade essential oils have high vibrations and many therapeutic benefits which can support us as we make emotional and spiritual change.

Consider using some of these oils (below) to help you adopt more supportive beliefs about love.  Diffuse and smell these essential oils and/or apply them topically over the heart.

 

Need help understanding your subconscious self?

Are you new to the world of Energy Balancing?  Are you new to emotionally healing with essential oils?

If you are new to all this, please book a time with me as we explore your subconscious mind.

Why is understanding the subconscious mind important? 

The subconscious mind holds the belief systems from which we operate.  Belief drives actions.  Actions create the results of our lives.  If we rely on the conscious mind to control things with sheer logic and will power, we’ll struggle.  It will be difficult to make major permanent progressive changes in our lives unless we make significant changes in our belief system.

As long as the subconscious and the conscious mind is aligned, you’ll be able to make great strides in your personal progression.  If there are any conflicts in the subconscious and the conscious mind, you’ll experience self-sabotage and divine-discontents.

Many times, the belief systems in the subconscious is influenced by generational belief patterns.  In our session, I can help you discover some of the unsupportive cultural trappings and social dogmas you’ve unintentionally adopted.  After a few sessions, you’ll hopefully be able to pick up these skills to continue to do on your own.

If you are already familiar with Energy Balancing

I encourage you to take the Energy Balancing with Faith course.  This is an inspired course to help you hone your Energy Balancing skills using essential oils and other tools.  Release the subconscious self-imposed limitations.  Help yourself and others live an intentionally happier, healthier, and holier life.

 

 

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