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When you need to feel more love…

 

The truth is, no other human can fill this great need of love.  Other people’s love might satisfy temporarily but then you will need more very soon.  The more you try to draw love from others the more it seems they reject you or dislike you.  You may struggle to understand why you are experiencing this, when you have tried so hard to be ‘nice’ to others.

In reality, when we are in this situation, we may or may not realize this, but because of our lack the self-love, WE are draining on others.  This is because we are holding them responsible for loving us.  You have essentially overdrawn from we friendship bank.  Since we don’t have enough divine love in our heart to reciprocate other’s love with substance they don’t feel that equal energy exchange.

We overdraw on other’s love by unintentionally being ‘needy’ in some way.

We need them to perhaps:

• praise
• validate
• help
• give attention

 

Of course we don’t want to intentionally be draining on others, so let’s turn this inward focus to a more balanced outward focus of substantial reciprocation.  We can balance that energy exchange by filling our heart with divine love first.

We learn that we are very loved and therefore lovable from this scripture in the Bible, John 3:16.  Heavenly Father made great sacrifices for us because He loves us so dearly.  We are His children.

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” ~ John 3:16

Only God’s love will satisfy that great deep need of love inside of us.  It seems like we are innately programed that way to help us remember to reconnect with God again.  Seeking Him and receiving His love is the way we can be ‘one’ with Him.

“And Jesus said unto them, I am the bread of life: he that cometh to me shall never hunger; and he that believeth on me shall never thirst.” ~John 6:35

Once we are filled with God’s love, we experience a satisfying peace and enlightenment.  The overflowing love from God we naturally want to share that divine love with others.  We cease to need others to constantly praise, validate, help, or give us attention.  When we are unattached to others power to choose and they are free to love us as they see fit.  In the end, we get more love from people around us in all the forms we previously desired but now we are no longer draining on others!

This change takes a little time, so be patient with yourself as you change on this belief level.

To help us get there faster, it is best we are aware of our power of choice.  Read more about degrees of passiveness and proactiveness here.

Essential oil Suggestions

I like to use essential oils to help me change the subconscious programing.

Essential oils are very concentrated plant extracts.  Certified pure therapeutic grade essential oils have high vibrations and many therapeutic benefits which can support us as we make emotional and spiritual change.

Consider using some of these oils (below) to help you adopt more supportive beliefs about love.  Diffuse and smell these essential oils and/or apply them topically over the heart.

 

Need help understanding your subconscious self?

Are you new to the world of Energy Balancing?  Are you new to emotionally healing with essential oils?

If you are new to all this, please book a time with me as we explore your subconscious mind.

Why is understanding the subconscious mind important? 

The subconscious mind holds the belief systems from which we operate.  Belief drives actions.  Actions create the results of our lives.  If we rely on the conscious mind to control things with sheer logic and will power, we’ll struggle.  It will be difficult to make major permanent progressive changes in our lives unless we make significant changes in our belief system.

As long as the subconscious and the conscious mind is aligned, you’ll be able to make great strides in your personal progression.  If there are any conflicts in the subconscious and the conscious mind, you’ll experience self-sabotage and divine-discontents.

Many times, the belief systems in the subconscious is influenced by generational belief patterns.  In our session, I can help you discover some of the unsupportive cultural trappings and social dogmas you’ve unintentionally adopted.  After a few sessions, you’ll hopefully be able to pick up these skills to continue to do on your own.

If you are already familiar with Energy Balancing

I encourage you to take the Energy Balancing with Faith course.  This is an inspired course to help you hone your Energy Balancing skills using essential oils and other tools.  Release the subconscious self-imposed limitations.  Help yourself and others live an intentionally happier, healthier, and holier life.

 

 

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