Agency: Owning Your Power

Ever wonder how others seem to be so successful at anything they do?

Wonder why those people have all the luck?

You feel like you tried your best but still things aren’t happening for you like you had hoped.

Feeling discouraged & frustrated?

Here is the secret sauce… Own your power. Successful confident people know how to own their own POWER! They are empowered.

What does that mean? How do you own your power?

As a child of God, we all have infinite power within that needs to be accessed and utilized. In other words, it’s your ability to master your mind, focus your feelings, and clarify your subconscious and conscious beliefs. You know you are empowered because you are a proactive person with solutions!

You are passive and unempowered when you:

Blame
Complain
Unable to forgive
Feeling weak and victimized
Feel hurt and offended easily
Holding onto anger
You feel jealous
You are wishing and waiting for someone to change THEN you will be happy
You are wishing and waiting for a situation to change THEN you will be happy
You don’t know what you feel but you are too scared to explore it
You are overwhelmed and overthinking
Attracting dramas and traumas into your life

What can you do to change this?

You have the power to choose in all situations!

“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”

~Viktor E. Frankl

You are your own agent. Agency means you can choose your path. It means you can choose to change and you can choose to create a happier more fulfilled life.

CHOOSING

Choose to connect to God. Develop a strong relationship with God. Choose to get all your fundamental human needs from God. When you fill up your soul with divine love, you let go of the victim mentality and own your agency better to receive solutions and directions from God.
God will help you recognize you have power to choose. Decide to be your own Agent to you!
Intentionally choose to be powerful, happy, and liberated. Decide to be strong and self respecting. A strong woman doesn’t have to be loud. Being a quiet woman doesn’t mean she is weak. When you made this choice and change well, others will adjust.
When you choose to be happy, you will have a lower tolerance for dramas. That means you will desire to find solutions that make you joyful and peaceful. You will be able to see faith promoting opportunities in what seems like obstacles. You will see the loving hand of God in your life.
Choose to be obedient to God’s commandments and inspirations. You don’t have to do all the work on your own. You don’t have to help everyone who asks for help. God will help you discern.
Choose to feel your feelings and resolve it.

CHANGING

Stop playing victim by blaming and complaining. That puts the responsibility for your happiness on others when in reality they have no power over you. Don’t give your power away. Accept responsibility for your life, thoughts, beliefs, emotions, and all your choices.
Be brave and be accountable for your actions, feelings, thoughts, and beliefs. Making mistakes doesn’t make you a bad person. Change the meaning of mistakes. See temporary failures feedback.
Recognize old patterns that are not supportive of an empowered person.
Stop listing out what is going wrong and what you don’t want. Start listing out what is going right and what it is that you DO want.
If you want something, then stop saying, “I can’t because…” Find reasons why you can.
See the good in yourself, in people and in the world.
Do Energy Balancing with Faith to clear away negative associations, memories, and emotions.

CREATING

Become a grateful person full of positivity, civility, respect, and cheer. Create your life intentionally without self-imposed limitations.
Be collaborative and community minded. Serve and love others because your heart is so full of love.
You are creating because you are practicing life in Heaven where you will be collaborating with others and creating with joy.
Create success by speaking things into existence.
While creating use Wild Orange, Cassia or Bergamot oil and say an affirmations to help you change your old negative thought patterns. Say something like, “I accept myself. I am confident and courageous. I love me. I am a success. I choose to be successful.”